The Irony of Originality

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Yesterday a friend sent me this picture from a NJ bagel deli. (Apparently it’s a really good deli too).

The first irony is obviously how much it looks like me and my logo.

Bald.

White.

Styling shades.

The second irony is that a toasted everything bagel – with or without lox – is my favorite breakfast food. (Maybe tied with grits and cheese).

And the third irony is that the friend who sent it to me is none other than Mike Kim – my logo’s creator.

Oddly enough, I’m driving to pick Mike up from the airport today for our Momentum Leadership Advance at New Life.

What’s the lesson in all this?

“Christopher is paranoid with looking for ironies.”

That, yes, and:

9 “What has been will be again,
what has been done will be done again;
there is nothing new under the sun.”

Ecclesiastes 1:9

No creative thought, invention, or undertaking is truly original. It’s been done before. All of it.

Even if you’re truly the first person to think of something new, God thought of it first.

And he already has a better idea than the one you have. Heck, he has a better idea for every single thing we humans have ever created.

Your best idea is really only a copy. The fact that the Lord lets people get away with thinking they came up with something is proof of his ultimate humility – a fact that should serve to keep us humbled in all out efforts.

And I guess that’s the point.

God has always been more interested in co-creating with us, promoting our success, than he ever was with taking credit.

That’s because he’s a good father.

He prizes relationship above ownership.

I think I’ll go have a previously-invented bagel now. ch:

The Christian Lorax?

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[Screen shot of The Lorax]

After coming home early from work in an attempt to combat the fever and fatigue that’s been beating me down, I pulled myself together to fulfill a promise we’d made to our kids days earlier: Tuesday night we’d go to see The Lorax with friends. (Thanks Brett and Victoria).

The movie was very well done, as expected, and NyQuil helped keep my symptoms at bay (and kinda’ made the whole movie trippy).

In true Dr. Suess style, there was plenty of quirky scenery, funny animals, and rhyming song lyrics. Not to mention a sweet one-wheeled motor scooter that gave the Segway a run for its money.

(I wonder if Dr. Suess was on NyQuil when he wrote?).

But the underlying theme felt overly political, even in its microcosm of Thneedville, and one species of fluffy-tufted trees.

Capitalism wiped out nature, both in harvesting and in by products.

It felt extremely “left-leaning” positionally.

And it resurfaced countless political planks fought over between the right and left, the Christian conservatives and the liberal left who’ve made Environmentalism into their own religion.

So where is the Christian in all this?

I’m sitting in my movie theatre seat asking, am I an anti-tree bigot? I love capitalism, but thought I liked trees and woodland creatures too? I thought I was the kid that grew up in the forrest, an Eagle Scout that camped outdoors every month of my life from age 11-18?

Then a long held belief came rushing to the surface. A belief that Christians were intended to be the world’s chief Environmentalists, with Adam being the first.

Genesis 1:28 reads like this:

And God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it and have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over every living thing that moves on the earth.”

Like many other issues-turned-political in our history, somewhere along the line we Christians abdicated our responsibilities to steward the Jesus-created-for-humankind planet.

The problem with anything that Christians relinquish is that it’s usually picked up by those who try and operate it without God’s perspective, and wildly blow it out if proportion. (Or destroy it altogether).

I don’t fault Environmentalists for their love of Creation – that’s extremely Christlike, as He made it all; I struggle with their tendency to place nature above people.

Yes – when decisions can and should be made that benefit humanity’s quality of life, Christians should champion those. But when inferior entities are given more care, attention, protective laws and proceeds than the superior creation of a human being, I have a problem.

We all should have a problem.

People are the pinnacle of Creation.

I have a number of Christian friends that have answered the call of God on their lives to study and pursue careers in forestry, fish and wildlife management, environmental studies, and the greater world of biology. I honor them, and I believe God honors them.

After all, it’s his planet.

As Christians we should get behind the causes that promote life – whether flora or fauna. Most especially human beings. And we should champion the proper implementation of Capitalism, the very entity that funds the majority of other noble pursuits.

The world is looking for examples. Without knowing it, they’re looking for how the Kingdom would respond to our world’s issues. But unless someone represents it to them, it’s unjust of us to assume they should know.

The Lorax may represent the trees, but I’m a Christ-follower, and I represent the King and his Kingdom. Which includes trees. ch:

The Bumblebee and Qualifications

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Yesterday Luik accompanied me to Jefferson Community College in Watertown, NY where I addressed the Intro to Business class. Having him beside me was a great encouragement (and let us have a Daddy/Son date to CiCi’s afterward, followed by some indoor rock climbing at Black River Adventures).

During the final Q&A section of my “lecture” (how tedious sounding!), I addressed a question that lead into the subject of what makes us qualified to do what we’re doing.

Certainly, I want my doctor to have gone to school and be qualified to operate on me.

But often the people that accomplish the most in life are sometimes the least “qualified.”

In my address, I mentioned Igor Sikorsky – father of the modern day helicopter – and his famous if not endearing quote about doing what we should not be able to:

“According to the laws of aerodynamics, the bumblebee can’t fly, but the bumblebee doesn’t know anything about the laws of aerodynamics, so it goes ahead and flies anyway.”

Most of what I’m doing today I’m technically unqualified for. I’ve never been to college for music, art, pastoring, film, design, literature, creative writing, business development or franchising, let alone fathering or parenting. By all secular accounts, I shouldn’t even be allowed to operate a candy bar stand.

But I don’t know that I shouldn’t be able to do this stuff, so I just keep doing it anyway. (Thanks Igor).

This is certainly not a cop-out for getting an education; but an education should also never be a cop-out for hard work and diligence. (Nor is entering into a mammoth amount of ambiguous debt my recommendation either).

Qualification has far more to do with experience than it does with approval. Test results and certificates approve us, but only time and our capacity to embrace correction truly qualify us. ch:

BCY Winter Retreat: Day 1

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Photos courtesy of Jennifer Hopper

Our first night here at Believer’s Chapel Youth Winter Retreat was a wonderful success. My friend Joey Bolognone of the band Fazeshift lead a powerful and instructive worship set, after which my buddy (and Associate Pastor of Believer’s Chapel) Rich Ryfun introduced me as the weekend’s guest speaker.

I shared on the danger of being in places we shouldn’t be. But more specifically how it’s not the sin we’re committing that gets us in trouble, but first making the decision not to abide in environments we were born to be in. 2 Samuel 11:1 says that David should have been going off to war with his men in the spring, but instead sent someone else to do his work while he stayed home. This seemingly benign mistake caused him to undergo the greatest temptation of his adult life. (Ladies, some small advice: resist the temptation to take a bath on your roof. Help the brothers out).

On the flip side, young Joshua desired to seek the Lord like his leader Moses. But where Moses had to leave his face-to-face encounters with God, Joshua – afforded by his youth – was able to remain behind and seek God earnestly. He was in the right place at the right time, and it was this very foundation that built within him the integrity to lead a nation into freedom.

The presence of the Lord in the conference center was so strong afterward that we moved into a time of prayer and waiting on Jesus. It was a beautiful moment of allowing the Holy Spirit to minister to kids and increase his presence within them. By the time I looked at the clock it was nearly midnight.

Jennifer and I will both be sharing at different points today, as well as spending some crazy time with our kids enjoying all that Camp of the Woods has to offer, including tubing, swimming and rock climbing. I’m honored to be of use to the Lord, and to have opportunities to include our children in the adventures of serving God. ch:

Just Point and Click

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Jennifer asked me to shoot a few pictures of her and Levi while it was snowing yesterday morning. She came downstairs in a beautiful black gown, and she asked me to wrap Levi up in one of her favorite blankets.

What happened next was magic.

With the snow gently falling, she and Levi posed in our front yard, supported in the background by a melancholy thicket of branches bowing under the weight of the heaven-sent dust.

All I had to do was depress the shutter.

Sometimes in life we get golden opportunities – opportunities where we couldn’t take a bad picture if we tried. But we must realize that our good fortune is actually the result of someone else’s preparation, talent, and natural gift.

Turns out Jennifer had been planning what she’d wanted for a while. She’d already thought through the wardrobe, the the need for light snow, and the locale. That combined with her natural beauty and Levi’s 10+ cuteness-factor made for a perfect storm.

Anything wonderful that befalls us is never an accident. Whether a job promotion, church growth, new friendships, a break in the monotony, or a new successful idea, we’re standing on the shoulders of others and recipients of the divine.

The sooner we realize life-gifts have very little to do with us and a whole lot more to do with others, the sooner we’ll start to trust God in his infinitely wise provision and enjoy the process of responding. Which usually is just depressing the shutter and looking on in awe. ch:

Cover design by Jennifer Hopper. Friend her on facebook.com/jenniferhopper to see the whole album.

Legacy Watchers

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All the boys came to snuggle in bed yesterday morning. Well, Levi didn’t have a choice as he’s got all the mobility of a large slug, and twice as much fluid excretion. But still, the important part is we were all together for this impromptu photo opp by Jennifer.

Life tends to sneak up on you. One minute I was trying to figure out what to do with all my creative energy as a late teen, the next I’m the father of a daughter and three sons. And now I recognize my greatest achievement – my greatest legacy – is seeing them on their way to run their own race for the Lord.

Everyone is a leader to someone. Maybe you’re not as charismatic as the next person, or maybe you don’t have a “weekly platform” that you think justifies your ability to speak into peoples’ lives.

Don’t be fooled.

Whether it’s a person looking across the gas pumps at you to see how you respond to the price of fuel, to the family sitting behind you in church watching the way you worship, to the little face beside you at dinner listening to the recap of your day, people are watching you.

Observing.

Learning.

The tone you set for life will become the resonance others tune themselves to. Do your best to stay sweet. ch:

Lessons from Coloring

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Jennifer and I sat down and colored with all the kids last night. Hunkered over the dining room table, we all poured over some of our favorite cartoon characters. Mine was Captain Huggy Pants from PBS’ Word Girl.

Here are some things I learned:

• No colored pencil is off limits, even the ones in someone’s hand. Coloring is war.

• If you think you own your picture, you’re wrong. It’s open game, especially to anyone siting in the lap of the artist.

• Three-year-olds should not have open access to the electric pencil sharpener.

• Clothes are optional. Diapers are optimal.

• Lines are irrelevant in the context of artistic expression; color over them liberally.

• When in doubt, scream. People will pay attention to you.

I plan on implementing some of the wise things I learned from my kids in my next staff meeting. ch:

For When the Real Bullets Start Flying

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[Screen shot of Act of Valor.]

Some people shouldn’t be allowed to write.

I know that goes against our Amendment on the freedom of speech; and if it were just about that, I get it.

But some people write such utterly base commentaries it degrades the entire human species.

I’m not even sure who reads the New York Times anymore, but their review of the movie Act of Valor boiled down to them not liking it because they had no real actors as Navy SEALS.

Correct me if I’m wrong here, but isn’t that the point of the film when they promoted the trailer with “Filmed with active duty Navy SEALS”? To a generation that craves the authentic and the genuine, isn’t that a selling point? Tragic that the reviewer missed the point.

Granted, watching some of the SEALS carry on dialog was a bit like watching some of the acting from a Sherwood Pictures movie, but it didn’t diminish the film. Put them in an action sequence and no actor could do it better! And the whole thing was well balanced with the remarkable performances of sinister bad guys Jason Cottle and Alex Veadov.

My father and I had a movie date yesterday, something we did all through my childhood. I love movies today because my dad loved movies back then. And when my good friend Mike Kim said it was one of the best movies he’d seen, I knew it was going to be brilliant.

And it was.

Daddy and I walked out of the theatre astonished, grateful and humble. And I couldn’t help but think about our own flag raising incident two years ago at the US National Cemetery in Normandy, and how seeing this film made that privilege all the more overwhelming.

It’s not for young viewers, nor those that have a hard time with intense battle sequences or f-bombs. But it is for patriots. For those who still believe we live in an incredible country. For those who want reminding about just how valiant all the members within our service branches are.

Magnificent heros. And as they say in the film, damn few.

My grandfather would have loved this movie were he alive. My dad agreed.

Here’s to all the men and women that give their lives everyday in service to our nation, and to my family. I admire and honor you all.

And here’s to the nearsighted self-proclaimed pundits who still don’t get why they used real US Navy SEALS. May God grant you protection for when you’re asking where the actors are if real bullets ever start flying. ch:

Despite the Pain


Judah is 2.5-years old. And he loves swimming.

Correction.

He’s obsessed with jumping off the diving board.

Still he puzzles me. After his life-preserver sends him rocketing back to the surface, he looks as though he’s drowning. He nearly rips his eyes out of their sockets, gasps for air, and smears snot across his cheeks. To any first time observer, Judah has just taken his first and last plunge. Yet as soon as he pull himself up the ladder and touches the deck, he’s making a B-line for the diving board, shamelessly cutting in line. To the front.

Female life guards everywhere are smitten with his dimples, and 4-year-olds who turn back from the edge only to allow him through are in awe of his capacity for bravery.

Me? I’m just shocked that something so visibly strenuous on him is something he so adores doing.

And I wonder: do I embrace painful adventures the same way? Does the sense and thrill of the new and the daring outweigh the discomfort that sometimes results?

Some things are worth doing even if they hurt. Worse, however, are endeavors we fail to engage in because of the discomfort we think we are going to endure. Unless we try, we’ll never know, and that is far worse a consequence than I care to live with.

The key to living large is embracing the painful and the pleasurable with gusto. Without it we may miss some of the most precious experiences known to man. The greatest adventurers I know exchange pain for the pursuit of life.

Since pain is something we can grow to ignore, it’d be a shame to let it – or even the thought of it – hold us back. Especially from something a wonderful as diving boards. ch:

Born To

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My wife was born to worship, and born to inspire others to worship.

Yes she’s also a remarkable wife, a sacrificial mother, a faithful friend, a talented photographer, and a gifted songwriter.

But she was born to help people enter the presence of the Lord with her voice.

We do not choose gifts, gifts choose us.

We may want to be a world-class golfer or an elite scientist, but all our hoping and hard work can never acquire what God has placed innately within us. One of the worst things that could befall out destiny is to be successful at something we were never born to do.

Don’t fight your natural gifts because your appetite is for success in something else. That’s jealousy, and it leads to death. Instead, embrace your God-given talents.

True maturity is being content with what we will never be. Cherish who you are and what you’ve been born with. Then pursue it. ch:

UPDATE: For those looking for my notes from today’s message, here’s a free PDF of them: MESSAGE: A New Look

The Missing Morality of Entitlements

If you’ve been within sightline or even earshot of the American news within the last few years, you’ve heard the word “entitlements” from the political right and “rights” from the political left. To say it’s a hot topic would be a severe understatement. That’s because it’s not just a political plank for candidates, but something that hits Americans at home.

Every last one of us.

Because we’re either paying for someone else’s benefit, or benefiting from someone else’s payment.

During a scene in the Republican debate in Mesa, Arizona earlier this week, Senator Rick Santorum made an interesting statement – and since I can’t find evidence to the contrary, especially from the liberal media, I must assume it’s accurate:

When I was born, less than 10 percent of the federal budget was entitlement spending. It’s now 60 percent of the budget. Some people have suggested that defense spending is the problem. When I was born, defense spending was 60 percent of the budget. It’s now 17 percent. If you think defense spending is the problem, then you need a remedial math class to go back to.

Certainly a fascinating statistic. But if this is simply a debate about spending, then we’ve missed the point as a nation.

There is a direct connection between assistance and morality.

No one would argue that there are not serious physical and mental needs in any society, including the United States. While we certainly have the highest living standard in the world per capita, our sheer size merits a large amount of need. Any forward thinking society must do due diligence is thinking through how to meet those needs; to ignore it is tantamount to genocide – wiping out the class of the frail and seemingly incompetent.

What must be decided is who is best equipped to manage the need-meeting. The importance of this subject goes far beyond who’s a better money manager, it goes into ethics.

What’s so staggering about Santorum’s quote is not the comparison with military spending, but with the timeline of what America was like when he was born (May 10, 1958) and what she is like today. We are decidedly a far more liberal culture, and more accepting of violence, sexual immorality, and horror, especially through the portals of television, music and the internet. Just 10 years before Santorum was born, the first time a couple had ever been seen sleeping in the same bed was on the Mark Kay and Johnny show. In its day it was considered blasphemy; how much more what we see on major networks at almost any hour of the day in 2012?

So what’s the connection?

As entitlements and people dependent on free handouts has grown – whether services or checks – so too has our culture’s capacity and desire for the immoral. While I don’t have enough statical evidence to draw finite conclusions, I feel confident in that the availability of the free, devoid of accountability and non-contingent on personal work ethic, erodes the senses of a human heart and devalues our sense of self-worth. As such the moral compass spins erroneously until it is finally stowed away, inaccurate and untrustworthy.

Does free human assistance have a place in society then?

Absolutely. But it must be tied to an element which the government can not and should not give. That of the divine.

Human assistance may be free, but it is very expensive. Jesus understood this the most, thus why he claimed that anyone willing to follow him would never thirst again, but the price was the person’s soul. He literally purchased complete human health in every facet with his blood –  the key word being purchased. No amount of taxes, spending, “revenue creation,” or donations can come close to what he spent his inheritance on: the entire human condition.

Free care without the kiss of the divine leaves a human soul destitute and wandering. Therefore aid must come from entities equipped not only to help meet physical needs, but to answer the questions of the heart.

While I believe there are many primarily non-profit institutions able to handle the core needs within their environments, I still argue that it is local churches who were intended to shoulder the majority of this burden. And while our governmental entitlement system may never fully recover to a place of health, nor will the Church be able to bear the financial and medial needs of millions of Americans, we can and should be adding our part to the conversation, which is marrying the physical needs being met by the government with the spiritual needs which must be met by the Church. Only then will we see an easing of the incessant and out-of-control entitlement spending, and a resurgence of a self-motivated, hardworking, diligent society.

Benjamin Franklin said:

I am for doing good to the poor, but…I think the best way of doing good to the poor, is not making them easy in poverty, but leading or driving them out of it. I observed…that the more public provisions were made for the poor, the less they provided for themselves, and of course became poorer. And, on the contrary, the less was done for them, the more they did for themselves, and became richer.

Government handouts can not meet the human need for identity and self-worth. Only Jesus can. And if Jesus lives in you, then only you can. While voting more conservative spenders into places of authority over the coming years may help slow the problem, only the intervention of the divine through the conduct of the Christian can turn the mire of the present into the foundation of the future. ch:

 

Iranian Pastor Sentenced to Death

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For those that remember, I first shared about the 2009 imprisonment and possible death penalty decision of 34-year old Pastor Youcef Nadarkhani back in September 2011.

Today international presses and human rights watch groups (all except the ACLU from what I can gather) are condemning Iran’s High Court verdict of passing down the death sentence for abandoning Islam.

Please read the Fox News piece in full here.

This is in no doubt part of growing international sanctions on the sovereign kingdom, further proof that these leaders require our sincere prayers, and need exactly what Youcef could now give his life for: a relationship with Jesus Christ. Although it could be argued that Youcef and his family have already been giving their lives for this purpose; it’s the lifestyle of preaching the Gospel, not a martyr’s death, that most aggravates the enemy.

The American Center for Law and Justice (ACLJ) recently launched a Twitter campaign to bring awareness to Youcef’s plight, already hitting over 400,000 Tweets and 150 nations (#TheOfficialACLJ).

I would strongly encourage you to share this story – whether my blog or any one of the international pieces published – with your Facebook friends, Twitter followers, email contacts, text buddies, classmates, and coworkers. And please pray for the salvation of Iran and the release of Pastor Youcef to keep doing what he was born to do; reach his nation for Jesus. ch: