What’s Ahead for You?

What were you doing a year ago today? How about three years ago today? That’d be December 2007. More importantly, what did you anticipate the coming year looking like?

Chances are, it was nothing like what you thought it’d be.

From a move, to job change, to an unexpected loss, to an unexpected gain, it’s safe to say nothing about your life is static. Or predictable.

That’s why New Year’s resolutions are futile to me.

Think about it. “I’m going to make a concrete decision for my life based upon my complete lack of knowledge for what lies ahead.” No wonder so many people don’t last more than a few days with their New Year’s intentions.

As Christians, however, we have something the rest of the world doesn’t. A glimpse into the future. Or better put, a relationship with the One who knows the future.

So rather than guess, rather than come up with yet another well intended idea that ultimately has very little sticking power, I’m planning on spending the first 1/10th of my year seeking the Lord. As has been my custom for the last few years, I’m altering my lifestyle, starving certain appetites in order to cultivate my appetite for God. Scripture calls this fasting. I call this needed for sanity.

Here are a few of my steps toward sanity:

Food – Changing my diet. Not only am I cutting out needless foods that are ultimately harmful to my body (let’s be honest here), but forcefully saying no to my cravings in order to reaffirm my spirit’s hunger of God.

Sleep – Saying no to the pillow. Sleep is good. Important. And needed. And I’m an American who gets too much. So I’m setting a new wake-up time during the week in order to seek the Lord more intentionally, and to be more productive with the morning hours as a good steward before God.

Media – I’m a product of what rules me. Putting my iPhone downstairs instead of beside me is a good place to start. Technology is wonderful. And addicting. But if it’s not serving my walk with Jesus right now, it goes. Because if I’m listening to all those other voices, I’m probably not listening to His voice.

Along with making myself accountable with the specifics to a few close friends, I’m joining my church for our annual “40 Days of Breakthru” in simply seeking the Lord for more of Him. It’s good to do things individually, but it’s exciting to do things corporately. Knowing that my willful cultivation to seek the Lord for the next 40 days is happening in conjunction with hundreds of other believers in my community is awesome. And encouraging.

The goal is not to eliminate or change behavior for change’s sake, but to do so with the mind of bending our naturally occurring and inescapable tendencies toward the divine. ch:

If you feel bold enough to comment, what is one specific thing you know is standing between you and hearing the voice of the Holy Spirit more clearly this year? And what are you doing proactively to address it?

Media Fast

I’m learning the art of not only unplugging, but making it a lifestyle. After hearing Michael Tyrrell‘s message last night on Noise Pollution in our spiritual life, I immediately felt the Holy Spirit prompt me to shut off the social media outlets of my life for ten days. It felt so right. I get tired of my reliance on this technology. ch:

I’m Back

2010-03-17 im back

Wow. 40 days is a long time when you’re in the middle of it. And really short when you’re passed it.

I really want to give a special shout out to all my incredible guest posters who held up my blog’s proverbial arms while I was away, and especially to my personal assistant, Debbie, who went from 0-100 on a WordPress learning curve. Hopefully you were encouraged and challenged by all they had to say. Feel free to browse back through their posts if you missed any.

So what did I learn from not blogging, Tweeting, FaceBooking, and [uh-hem] eating various foods for 40 days? Besides realizing I just used a few made up verbs in the previous sentence, all of which are–oddly enough–culturally acceptable, I learned more than I know. And more than I could put in a post. Unless transferring experiences in whole through the internet is possible.

Clarity. Extreme clarity, if you want a describer put in there. That would be the most profound word that comes to mind. I can think of no better word to describe my relationship with the Holy Spirit, my perception of circumstances, contexts, ministry insights (both personal and corporate), and relationships. It seems when all the other extraneous “stuff” gets removed, you’re left with less. Less stress, less distraction, less noise. To quote Kem Meyer‘s aptly put book title, “Less Clutter. Less Noise.”

The second word would be grace. I recognized a very palpable manifestation of grace upon my life, alerting me to just how much my body kicks, screams, and demands for what it wants, and just how much strength there is from the Lord to not only tolerate such behavior, but to put it in it’s place. (That little brat!). Likewise, struggles and temptations were minimized to their most negligible levels. Ever.

If I could derive an adequate resolution from this time, it would be to make the divine rhythms of withdrawing a lifestyle. Incorporating reoccurring seasons of fasting–both food and media–is not only good for all aspects of my health, but Biblical. And moreover, Christ-like. I feel I have new footing to teach from, and more experience with which to admonish myself in the pursuit of Christ-like maturity.

Thanks for all those who stood with me, prayed for me, and genuinely missed my absence from the interweb. ch:

My Blogatical

petrockbloggers

I’m shutting her down. Not permanently. But for a little while. About 40 days.

I need some time off. Time out of technology. Not completely of course. I have an album to mix, church work to do, books to write. But the things that I don’t need, are expendable. Despite my best arguments that I like them. Twitter, for example. I’ve made a ton of new connections and have “met” some incredible people. Some even in person now. FaceBook is another one. Amazing for reconnecting with old friends, or staying in touch with people I meet all over the world. Or keeping you updated on what’s happening in my life. I’m honored that you even read.

This blog is another non-necessity. I love it. Love forming connections with you. Love the ministry that it provokes, the conversations. And love providing you a small, ongoing window into our lives and all that Jesus has allowed us to undertake in his name, from the humorous to the profound.

But like everything, it has its seasons. And in this season, it’s taking a back seat. Actually, I’m throwing it out of the car while we’re still moving.

This fast of social media is tied with some other separations I’m undertaking, one’s which I don’t feel the liberty to go into now. But needless to say I’m looking forward to reconnecting with God, my family, and the call of simply being a son. No distractions. Realigning myself with my Daddy, and getting a clearer picture of what I’m here for. Tied in there are prayers for revival within this new generation; prayers for healing of loved ones; and reordering things in me that, well, simply need to be put back together. And eliminating the waste. Ambition. Lack of purity. A spirit of unbelief. I also think such periods are Biblical, and I admire those who have made such seasons of separation a lifestyle. That’s my hope. It’s Christlike.

So this Blogatical leaves you free of my voice as well. But it doesn’t mean this canvas on the interweb will be blank. Far from it. For the next 40-odd days, it’s yours.

I’ve asked over 30 friends that I’ve accumulated on Twitter to be the conversation starters. (I collect them. Like pet rocks. Not really. They’re cooler than pet rocks). For the next month, they are going to get things started. From parents to pastors to authors to musicians–and from three different continents–I’ve asked them to make ch.com their home. No restraints. I don’t know what they’re going to say, or how frequently. And I’m more than cool with not agreeing with them; I have no desire to control it. Somehow, deep inside of me, I believe this is the best use of this web domain for this season. And I would ask you to be involved. Many of you read but never comment. (Yes, I track stats). A few thousand of you have decided to check in each week. And I’m honored by that. But please: don’t remain silent. Chime in. Talk back to these amazing people. And let them know you’re listening. Then tell your friends.

So for now, no more tweets. No status updates. No posts or comments.

Just.

Silence. ch:

(See you in March)

Cutting the Crap

cut_the_crap

I’m about to launch into a season of some major trimming, cutting out a lot of the extraneous in order to more clearly see and be aligned with the essential. And I’m really looking forward to it. But more on that process–and what my faithful readers are going to get–later.

For now, I’m interested to know if there have been seasons in your life where you cut things out. Was it temporary, or permanent? What was the net result in your personal, social, and spiritual life?

Ready, set, go! ch: