Unexpected Happens Fast

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These two photographs were taken within about one mile of each other on Rt. 12 North yesterday.

One moment the roads were wet from a light rain, grass on both sides of the road; the next, visibility was reduced to about 200 yards and traffic was moving at 20mph.

Life has a way of changing gears on us.

Fast.

But there are some practical steps for navigating its turbulent conditions:

1.) Get intel from those who’ve gone ahead of you. Jennifer called me just as I was taking my normal route home from church. “Don’t go the back way. It’s bad.”

Being old does have its perks; and the perk of being young is the blessing of listening to people who’ve driven the road ahead of you.

“He who ignores discipline despises himself, but whoever heeds correction gains understanding.” -Proverbs 15:32

2.) Respect good equipment. The snow tires on my front-wheel drive Matrix are killer. But I tend to delay changing tires out. For a time-sensitive guy like me, it’s a hassle. An inconvenience. But getting in an accident it a bigger inconvenience. Fortunately for me yesterday, I put my snow tires on two weeks ago.

And I was three cars behind a snow plow.

While the oncoming lane had two inches of snow to navigate, I had smooth sailing.

Preparing yourself emotionally (by measuring your responses and keeping everything in perspective), physically (by taking good care of your body while you have the opportunities), and spiritually (by actively growing your faith in God) can often be the difference between making your destination and sliding off the road.

Learn to follow people better equipped than you are; you may move a little slower, but success is usually guaranteed when compared with the alternatives.

3.) Pray simple prayers. The late Elizabeth Austin – by far the most spiritually mature woman I’ve ever know (and the most successful evangelist to ALL the nations I’ve ever heard of) – used to tell me her most spiritual prayer ever was, “Help!”

We can have all the wisdom and preparation in the world, but without a relationship with Jesus we’re bankrupt in a snow drift just waiting for a tow we can’t even afford.

(Praise God that He’s quite good at pulling us out, too).

I think that was the secret to the success of the people mentioned in Psalm 112:7:

“They will have no fear of bad news;
their hearts are steadfast, trusting in the LORD.”

What things in your life have helped you prepare for and cope with the unexpected storms of life? (You could be a real blessing to someone by sharing).

Thanks for reading. Thanks for sharing. ch:

Thoughts on Vice Verses

For someone who makes a large part of his living creating and playing music, I don’t listen to a whole lot.

Part never being able to turn off the critical listening region of my brain, part tiring too quickly of chord progressions and lead singer’s tone, part craving silence instead of sound, I’ve never really been able to put my finger on my lack of listening habits. Maybe I’m just too busy making my own music I don’t have time to digest other people’s.

Bottom line: I have to really like what gets played in my car. It’s not competing against a long playlist, it’s competing against quiet.

This past week Switchfoot’s new record came out, Vice Verses. Because I splurged and got the “deluxe package,” it also came with – among other things – a live album of Hello Hurricane.

I’m not sure why Switchfoot has hooked me the way they have. They’re great guys. They put on an amazing show. They love their families, still love Jesus without making him cheap (or being obnoxious). And successfully mix fun and intensity into their music.

And maybe that’s why I’m gelling with Vice Verses so much.

It’s about the dichotomies.

The juxtapositions.

The tensions of life.

The older I get, the more I live out the extremes. Funerals and births. Hellos and goodbyes. Victories and defeats.

And if there were ever a soundtrack to accompany such life-living, I dare say this album is one of them. If nothing more than for the words.

Jon Foreman is a master poet. And he’s managed to capture the soul of such life predicaments in lyrics. Then the band wrapped them in threads of song.

I’m also a big fan of experimenting with tones, especially with bass and guitar, as in this record. Low-fi dirges to shrill grit. The lovely warmth of the clean to the harsh sterility of the digital. It seems even their production choices adhered to the thematic condition.

The deluxe packaging – a ribbon-tethered boxed set including a letter from Jon, manila folders filled with photographs, handwritten lyric pages, a DVD, and a sweet pencil (among other things) – is probably one of the coolest presentations I’ve seen in a long time.

Needless to say I have had Vice Verses and Hello Hurricane Live on in my car back-to-back. (The live disc deserves its own review; it’s that good). Switchfoot has done it with me again. Connected. Sounding familiar enough that I can pick up shreds of influence from bands that we clearly both love, yet foreign enough that I’m marveling at the nuances, at the elements of invention.

My hat’s off to the boys for crafting a rock-n-roll gauntlet in honor of life’s polarities. ch:

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On The Brink

What’s one tip for amping the passion you have for people? For what you do? For living?

Recognize you’re only ever one breath away from eternity.

I watched through the window as this truck driver tried moving the SUV on his rig, only to find out the vehicle wouldn’t shift into gear, and had no breaks. The only thing that kept him from going over was that it bottomed out at the last second.

When he climbed down I ran over and patted him on the shoulder. “Jesus totally had your back on that one, bro.”

“Yeah,” he said nervously. “Yeah, he did.”

Wrestling with the subject of our own finite mortality – while sometimes sobering – can also be the source of incredible inspiration.

A fish-fry dinner says he hugged his wife a little tighter when he got home that night.

So ask yourself.

What if this was the last time I cleaned the house?

What if this was the last set of data I entered?

What if this was the last customer I helped?

But go further.

What if this was the last time I hugged my wife?

Kissed my children?

High-fived a friend?

One of the secrets to living passionately in the moments we’re given is coming to grips with the fact we may never get the next one.

Don’t shy away from your mortality. It will only make you fearful. Embrace it. You’ll live for others unlike ever before. ch:

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Big Day

As I was tucking Eva in to bed, she looked up and said, “Tomorrow is going to be another big day.”

Her sheer enthusiasm and determined hope struck me.

“Yes, it is Eva,” I replied. “It absolutely is.”

But while I had no immediate recollection of exactly what made today “big,” nor was I aware of anything significant we had announced we were doing tomorrow, I knew I could agree with her.

Because she would make it a “big day.”

And as I shut off the light and slipped out of her room, I realized that’s exactly how God intends us to look at each tomorrow.

It’s going to be big.

Adventure.

Conflict.

Discovery.

Resolution.

Life.

And he designed it for living. Yet, so often our days aren’t “big days.” They’re flat, repetitive, predictable, and stale.

God’s fault? Our spouse’s fault? Our boss’? Our chosen (or unchosen) line of work?

Or ours?

Because we failed to catch something that a 6-year-old did. And maybe we have to act like we’re six to rediscover.

Life is a gift. Only the grateful make best use of it, and find everything wondrous.

Because the grateful can never be disappointed. ch:

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Make Friday Blue.

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Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. -Jesus (Matthew 6:19-21)

So what’s our family’s big news?

Today, Black Friday, millions of people are buying hundreds of millions of dollars worth of items that will not likely last more than a few years. Some more than a few hours.

While I’m all in to buying gifts for the ones I love, I also long to make scripture practical.

So we’re asking for your help.

Buy something that you can store up in heaven.

Buy someone’s life.

The Hopper Family has partnered with Gifts Of Water (Water Missions International) to create our own team, and we’d like you and your family to join us in purchasing pure water for communities in Uganda. $10. That’s it.

We get nothing for this. No disclaimers needed. Except maybe the recognition we get from heaven for doing a very small act of kindness that results in keeping people we will never meet alive and healthy.

Let us know if you’re “in” via comment below, then go donate on our team page here. Then please tell your FaceBook and Twitter friends that you joined Team Hopper and ask them to do the same. We’re trying to raise $2,000 by Christmas! ch:

UPDATE: 11.29.2010 – Over $1,400 raised for our first community! Check out our new team page here.

Living with Intention

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I feel like I have changed pretty dramatically in the last couple years. I am not quite sure what the catalyst was? Maybe there were several? A new job, a new town, a new circle of friends, a new church?

I lived my 20s recklessly. I lived my days as if I was just passing time. I had fun. I enjoyed my circumstances, most of the time. I lived life. But I didn’t feel like I had any power. I waited for things to happen, for needs to be met, for relationships to blossom, for God to show up.

But somewhere along the way, that shifted.

Now, in my 30s, I find myself wanting to live intentionally. I want to wake up each morning more thankful for another day. I want to make the most of every opportunity, of every interaction, of every moment. I want to draft plans. I want to dream big. I want to conquer my fear. I want to be more focused on the process than the outcome. I want to love in a way that moves others. I want to be conscious that my actions measure up with how I want to be remembered. I want to live with intention.  Is this living with intention important to you? If so, how do you stay focused on living intentionally?

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Lindsey Nobles is Thomas Nelson’s Director of Corporate Communications. She’s a native Texan living in Tennessee who love books, movies, music, food, and blogging. I blog at www.lindseynobles.com and I tweet at www.twitter.com/lnobles. I hope you’ll stop by and say “hi.”